Rules of desire

Book: Rules of desire by Cc Gedling

Reviewed by Your_bookish_fantasy

Rating: 5/5

๐“๐“ž ๐“ข๐“Ÿ๐“ž๐“˜๐“›๐“”๐“ก๐“ข
โšœ๏ธ๐”ป๐•–๐•ฅ๐•’๐•š๐•๐•–๐•• ๐•ฃ๐•–๐•ง๐•š๐•–๐•จ ๐• ๐•—- Rules of Desire

โšœ๏ธโ„๐•’๐•ฅ๐•š๐•Ÿ๐•˜๐•ค-
(out of 5 stars, my rating scale is at the end)
๐Ÿ“š ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜† โญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธ / 5

๐ŸŒก๏ธ ๐—ฆ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ MF ๐ŸŒถ๐ŸŒถ๐ŸŒถ๐ŸŒถ / 5 -๐‘โ„Ž๐‘’๐‘๐‘˜ ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘ก ๐‘š๐‘ฆ ๐บ๐‘œ๐‘œ๐‘‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘‘๐‘  ๐‘ โ„Ž๐‘’๐‘™๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘  ๐‘œ๐‘› ๐‘š๐‘ฆ ๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘–๐‘’๐‘ค ๐‘“๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘‘๐‘’๐‘ก๐‘Ž๐‘–๐‘™๐‘’๐‘‘ ๐‘ ๐‘๐‘–๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘š๐‘–๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘ก๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘๐‘’๐‘ 

Which books have I also given this same rating? (๐‘ ๐‘œ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘› ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘š๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘š๐‘ฆ ๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘ฆ๐‘™๐‘’๐‘œ๐‘“ ๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ ๐‘œ๐‘ค๐‘›)

5โญ๏ธ Fourth wing / Bound by inked flame / Anathama / The Lies of Lena / Of silver and Curses
4.5โญ๏ธ Bitten / The Female / Quicksilver / Bride / Lights Out / A Bargain so Bloody
4โญ๏ธ Spellcaster / One Dark Window / From Blood and Ash / Phantasma / Butcher & Blackbird
3โญ๏ธWe Who Will Die / The Wolf King / Daughter of No Worlds / The Ex Hex

โšœ๏ธ๐•‚๐•–๐•ช ๐•€๐•Ÿ๐•—๐• :
Genre- Dark Romance

๐Ÿ“– 358 ๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜€

๐น๐‘–๐‘Ÿ๐‘ ๐‘ก ๐‘๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘ ๐‘œ๐‘› Dual ๐—ฃ๐—ข๐—ฉ

๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ- 26 June 2026

๐—ฃ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ or ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ driven? ๐’ž๐’ฝ๐’ถ๐“‡๐’ถ๐’ธ๐“‰โ„ฏ๐“‡

๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ก๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ & ๐—•๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐—ป๐—ผ- Standalone

๐—”๐˜ƒ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ on ๐—ž๐—จ? โœ…๐’ดโ„ฏ๐“ˆ

๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ-๐“‚โ„ฏ๐’น๐’พ๐“Š๐“‚ & ๐“Œโ„ฏ๐“๐“ ๐“…๐’ถ๐’ธโ„ฏ๐’น ๐’ปโ„ด๐“‡ ๐“‰๐’ฝโ„ฏ ๐“ˆ๐“‰โ„ด๐“‡๐“Ž

๐— ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ? โœ…๐’ดโ„ฏ๐“ˆ! ๐’ฏ๐’ฝ๐’พ๐“ˆ ๐’ทโ„ดโ„ด๐“€ ๐“Œ๐’พ๐“๐“ ๐’ถ๐“๐“Œ๐’ถ๐“Ž๐“ˆ ๐“ˆ๐“‰๐’ถ๐“Ž ๐“Œ๐’พ๐“‰๐’ฝ ๐“‚โ„ฏ.

๐€๐ง๐ฒ ๐‘๐ž๐ฉ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง? (Disability, plus size, mental health etc...) โœ… plus size body issues

โ„ณโ„ดโ„ด๐’น๐“ˆ; ๐‘น๐’๐’Ž๐’‚๐’๐’•๐’Š๐’„, ๐‘บ๐’•๐’†๐’‚๐’Ž๐’š, ๐‘ฌ๐’Ž๐’๐’•๐‘–๐’๐’๐’‚๐’, ๐‘ฏ๐’๐’‘๐’†๐’‡๐’–๐’, ๐‘ป๐’†๐’๐’”๐’†.

๐’Ÿ๐’พ๐’น ๐’พ โ„ฏ๐“ƒ๐’ฟโ„ด๐“Ž ๐“‰๐’ฝ๐’พ๐“ˆ?โœ…

๐’ฒโ„ด๐“Š๐“๐’น ๐’พ ๐“‡โ„ฏ๐’ถ๐’น ๐’ถ๐“ƒ๐“Ž๐“‰๐’ฝ๐’พ๐“ƒ๐‘” โ„ฏ๐“๐“ˆโ„ฏ ๐’ท๐“Ž ๐“‰๐’ฝ๐’พ๐“ˆ ๐’ถ๐“Š๐“‰๐’ฝโ„ด๐“‡?โœ…

๐–‚๐–๐–” ๐–œ๐–”๐–š๐–‘๐–‰ ๐–Ž ๐–—๐–Š๐–ˆ๐–”๐–’๐–’๐–Š๐–“๐–‰ ๐–™๐–๐–Ž๐–˜ ๐–™๐–”? Absolutely everyone that loves a deep romantic connect, strong characters and of course- kinky smut!

โฐOff page triggers warning

โšœ๏ธ๐•Š๐•ก๐•š๐•”๐•– ๐”ฝ๐•’๐•”๐•ฅ๐•ค:
๐Ÿ’ฆ๐“๐š๐›๐จ๐จ ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ค๐ฌ/ ๐œ๐ก๐จ๐ข๐œ๐ž๐ฌ
๐Ÿฅต๐’Ÿ๐’พ๐“‡๐“‰๐“Ž ๐’ฏ๐’ถ๐“๐“€
๐Ÿ˜Iแ‘ŽีTแ—ฉ แ’ชOแฏแ—ด แ’ชแ‘Œแ”•T
๐Ÿ’€๐”‰๐”ฌ๐”ฏ๐”Ÿ๐”ฆ๐”ก๐”ก๐”ข๐”ซ ๐”ฏ๐”ฌ๐”ช๐”ž๐”ซ๐” ๐”ข
๐ŸŒก๐•๐•–๐•’๐•ฃ๐•Ÿ๐•š๐•Ÿ๐•˜, ๐”ธ๐•Ÿ๐•˜๐•ค๐•ฅ, ๐•‹๐•–๐•Ÿ๐•ค๐•š๐• ๐•Ÿ
๐Ÿ‘€๐˜๐˜ฐ๐˜บ๐˜ถ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ฎ
๐Ÿ†Kink club setting
๐Ÿ˜‡๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฏ แตƒโฟแตˆ/แต’สณ ๐——๐—ผ๐—บ ๐˜€๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ

โšœ๏ธ๐•‹โ„๐•†โ„™๐”ผ๐•Š
๐Ÿซ๐ถ๐‘œ๐‘™๐‘™๐‘’๐‘”๐‘’/๐ด๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘‘๐‘’๐‘š๐‘ฆ ๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘ก๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘›๐‘”
๐Ÿ“– student x professor
๐Ÿงจ๐•Š๐•’๐•ค๐•ค๐•ช ๐”ฝ๐•„โ„‚
โณ๐ƒ๐š๐ฆ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ ๐ข๐ง ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ
โ˜˜๏ธ Irish mob connections
๐ŸฅณPlus size FMC

๐Ÿ“Cliff Notes Review-
Rules of Desire completely stole my heart. This is far more than a romance, itโ€™s a powerful story about healing, self-worth, trust, and learning to reclaim your voice after trauma. The body positivity is beautifully handled, the BDSM representation is one of the healthiest and most respectful Iโ€™ve ever read, and the emotional chemistry between Taylor and Gene is unforgettable. I especially loved the realistic happily-ever-after, proving that healing doesnโ€™t end the moment you fall in love. This is the kind of romance that stays with you long after youโ€™ve turned the final page.

๐ŸŒ ๐•Ž๐• ๐•ฃ๐•๐•• ๐•“๐•ฆ๐•š๐•๐••๐•š๐•Ÿ๐•˜, ๐•จ๐•ฃ๐•š๐•ฅ๐•š๐•Ÿ๐•˜ ๐•’๐•Ÿ๐•• ๐•ก๐•’๐•”๐•š๐•Ÿ๐•˜:
Some books entertain you, some books make you swoon, and then there are the rare ones that leave you sitting in silence after youโ€™ve finished because they made you feel something. Rules of Desire was one of those books for me.

At its heart, this is so much more than a romance. Itโ€™s a story about healing, reclaiming yourself after trauma, learning to trust again, and discovering that vulnerability can be one of the strongest things a person possesses. It handles these themes with such compassion and authenticity that every emotional moment felt genuine.

One of my absolute favourite aspects of this book was its body positivity. Taylorโ€™s body isnโ€™t treated as something that needs to be changed or apologised for. Sheโ€™s a curvy woman who is desired, respected, loved, and seen exactly as she is. It never felt forced or tokenistic. Instead, it was woven naturally into the story in a way that felt incredibly uplifting and refreshing.

My only gripe is that I wish the person that was the main cause of Taylorโ€™s anxiety was made to face that fact. I would have liked to watch that play out, especially with the similarities with her mother being a huge trigger. It would have been nice to read how sometimes your family doesnโ€™t know best, and that forcing your views and expectations on people causes more harm than good because if the hospital scene was real life and that person got their way- what a different, soul destroying and harming end that would have beenโ€ฆ all because they wouldnโ€™t listen or respect her enough to allow her to make her own choices.

The BDSM representation deserves special recognition. As someone who has read plenty of books that mistake dominance for poor communication and unhealthy behaviour, this was a breath of fresh air. Everything was built around trust, negotiation, respect, consent, aftercare, and emotional transparency. There were no tired stereotypes or shock value. Instead, it showcased the lifestyle with the maturity and care it deserves.

One thing I particularly appreciated was the ending. Rather than wrapping everything up with a perfectly polished happily-ever-after, the author gave us something that felt far more realistic. Trauma doesnโ€™t disappear because youโ€™ve fallen in love, and this story honours that beautifully. The ending is hopeful, satisfying, and optimistic without pretending that healing has an overnight finish line. It felt authentic to the characters and, because of that, all the more rewarding.

๐Ÿงโ€โ™‚๏ธ โ„‚๐•™๐•’๐•ฃ๐•’๐•”๐•ฅ๐•–๐•ฃ๐•ค:
The chemistry between Taylor and Gene absolutely sizzled, but what I loved most was that the emotional tension often outshone the physical attraction. Every lingering glance, every difficult conversation, every moment of restraint carried just as much weight as the romance itself. Their history, the boundaries between them, and the feelings theyโ€™d both tried to bury made every interaction feel layered and emotionally charged.

The FMC Taylor completely stole my heart. Watching her fight against years of self-doubt, body insecurity, and the damaging voice left behind by her past was both heartbreaking and incredibly empowering. Her internal dialogue was painfully honest at times, and I think so many readers will recognise parts of themselves in her. Her journey isnโ€™t about someone else fixing her, itโ€™s about slowly finding the confidence to trust her own voice again, and that made every step of her growth feel meaningful.

Gene was everything I wanted in a dominant hero. Calm, patient, emotionally intelligent, protective without being controlling, and constantly aware of the responsibility his position placed on him. Watching a man who is known for being composed and in complete control slowly unravel for the one woman he couldn't protect years ago was delicious! Every decision he made centred around Taylorโ€™s wellbeing, her consent, and her emotional safety. His understanding that submission is ultimately about the submissive holding all the power was beautifully portrayed and something I wish more BDSM romances represented so accurately.

Geneโ€™s internal struggle was just as compelling. Watching him realise that Taylor is the one person heโ€™s never truly been able to let go of was incredibly satisfying. His restraint, his patience, and the way he constantly prioritised her emotional healing over his own desires made him impossible not to fall in love with.

๐Ÿชง๐”ฝ๐•š๐•Ÿ๐•’๐• ๐•ฅ๐•™๐• ๐•ฆ๐•˜๐•™๐•ฅ๐•ค:
Overall, Rules of Desire is one of the most respectful, emotionally intelligent, and beautifully written BDSM romances Iโ€™ve read. Itโ€™s sensual without losing sight of the emotional journey, deeply romantic without sacrificing realism, and filled with characters who feel wonderfully human. If youโ€™re looking for a story that celebrates body confidence, healthy BDSM dynamics, emotional healing, and a romance built on trust rather than rescue, this is one I cannot recommend highly enough.

๐น๐‘œ๐‘™๐‘™๐‘œ๐‘ค ๐‘š๐‘’ ๐‘“๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘š๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘–๐‘’๐‘ค๐‘  ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘ ๐‘ข๐‘”๐‘”๐‘’๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘ ;

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๐•„๐•ช โ„๐•’๐•ฅ๐•š๐•Ÿ๐•˜ ๐•Š๐•ช๐•ค๐•ฅ๐•–๐•ž๐•ค:
โญ๏ธ DNF

โญ๏ธโญ๏ธ
I managed to finish it but it was rubbish. I won't keep a physical copy and won't recommend it, but it's a shame as the plot could have made a good book in another author's hands

โญ๏ธโญ๏ธ.5
It was OK. I wish I didn't start this one as it didn't do it for me as I struggled to read it. It had an interesting premise that fell flat but I had to see what happened in the end.

โญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธ
I don't regret reading it, and I will read the next one, but this one did have a few flaws. [These could be repetitive writing, gaps or plot holes, better character growth or world building, areas needing more detail]
Generally, the book lacked depth and became confusing. The plot resonated with me even though it annoyed me on the whole.

โญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธ.5
I'm glad I read it. I enjoyed it and would recommend it to the right people, but I wanted more! Sadly, it's easily forgettable with a few issues I just couldn't overlook/get past.

โญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธ
Good book! I loved it, but... I needed more! Not only that, but I really did enjoy it, but it had a few parts that needed more detail or added history/background or lore. But that's because the story or characters were memorable, and the plot was strong with brilliant twists. I would re-read if I needed to catch up for the next book and would recommend.

โญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธ.5
Great book! I truly wish the story had been thought about more, or the author had been given more time as this book is so close to brilliance! I will likely read again and will definitely be recommending it to all!

โญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธ
WOW! Absolutely amazing book! Well written with great characters and a plot so memorable that it will stay with me. I will definitely read this again, I will be recommending it and sharing it with the whole world! Also- I NEED A PHYSICAL COPY!

๐Ÿ”ฅโญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธ๐Ÿ”ฅ
This is my God level tier. The book must be perfectly memorable. Even after reading 50+ more books, I will remember character names and emotions along with the plot. If there is a special edition, then I need to own it! If there is a conversation on books- I'm talking about this!

SPICE SCALE:
๐ŸŒถ๏ธโ€“ segsual language and a little on-page action

๐ŸŒถ๏ธ๐ŸŒถ๏ธโ€“ a lot of segsual language and some on-page open door action, may be occurring a couple of times

๐ŸŒถ๏ธ๐ŸŒถ๏ธ๐ŸŒถ๏ธโ€“ a lot of explicit action and dirty talk, occurring frequently with 2/3 lurvers

๐ŸŒถ๏ธ๐ŸŒถ๏ธ๐ŸŒถ๏ธ๐ŸŒถ๏ธ โ€“ super graphic and explicit, occurring 4 or more times, can be more grey and taboo themed.

๐ŸŒถ๏ธ๐ŸŒถ๏ธ๐ŸŒถ๏ธ๐ŸŒถ๏ธ๐ŸŒถ๏ธ โ€“ Kinks and Fet!shism, explicit and super graphic. It is likely to be tushy play, toys, playrooms, and more dark / taboo fantasies and realities.

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